Man Uncivilized: The male vulnerability myth. Why without strength, vulnerability in men leads to chaos.
Southampton New York, late February 2018. By all accounts, the house we’re in is supposed to be completely devoid of humans. Hell, this is Southampton in the dead of winter—the entire town is supposed to be empty. I’m spending the weekend with my secret lover, Jackie, on a dark street, on an even darker night. […]
Man Uncivilized: All men are real men. How the subtle shaming of men is pervasive and accepted.
“If you want to hurt a man, the first thing you do is attack his masculinity.” — Michael Ian Black Things had taken a turn rather quickly as I stood in my friend’s Los Angeles kitchen. I had just asked her a question about the art adorning the walls and then sighed at her response […]
Man Uncivilized: What no one is telling men about sex – but every man needs to know.
Photo by: Alisa Rauner “When you’re operating in your sexual power, you become an unstoppable maniac in your life.” – Jaime Elizabeth Thompson Have you ever imagined your sex life could be a source of healing? A source of inspiration? Or a source of empowerment outside the bedroom? Men, have you ever imagined you could […]
Man Uncivilized: The Men Are Not Alright Either – Two ways men can change the world immediately.
Men are lost. It’s masculinity’s fault. Boys are lost. It’s gun’s fault. It’s mental health’s fault. It’s the NRA’s fault. And the ubiquitous default — it’s Trump’s fault. And no, I didn’t vote for him. Last week, this New York Times piece “The Boys Are Not Alright” by Michael Ian Black, made the internet rounds […]
Man Uncivilized: What every man needs to know about the new sexual harassment landscape.
Matt Lauer is a piece of shit. That’s an easy thing to say after watching his story blow up CNN and every other news station in America a few weeks ago. Only a piece of shit has a button installed in his desk to lock women in his office, right? It’s easy to say he’s […]