Man Uncivilized: Why having access to our brains, hearts, and balls will change men’s lives for the better.
Think with your head. Feel with your heart. Lead with your balls. This is the way of the Uncivilized Man. Take a moment, gents, and close your eyes. Picture in your mind the men you most respect. I’ll venture to guess these men do exactly what’s written above. Now take a moment and look around […]
Man Uncivilized: Why you need to deal with your shit, otherwise you’ll trip on it. Repeatedly.
There was a box dropped on the floor in the middle of my emotional living room. It landed there last weekend when I found out my ex-wife got remarried shortly after our divorce was finalized. Boxes get put on the floor of all of our emotional living rooms. People pass away, we get betrayed, friends […]
Man Uncivilized: How men’s lives improve when they’re grounded and don’t get sucked into drama
“Position before submission” is something I heard hundreds of times from my jiujitsu and MMA coaches. “Make sure you’re in the right spot, doing the right thing, with yourself and your opponent under control – then go for the win.” That was the overriding message, day in, day out. Don’t get ahead of yourself, stay […]
Man Uncivilized – The lost art of giving a f&%k. Two places men can invest their effort for amazing returns.
As a coach, nothing turns me on like effort. In short, it’s because seeing effort from my clients means they give a fuck. Lots of fucks to be accurate. Last week a female friend from high school who knows about my work with men reached out and asked, “How do you feel about being a […]
Man Uncivilized – Three things every man can own today to radically transform his life.
Ownership. The root of the word comes from the Latin for “own your shit.” Ok, I made that up, but it fits. Ownership is the great turning point in your life if things are out of alignment in any and every area. Ownership is not civilized, it’s not the norm, it’s not what you see […]