Stop Telling Yourself “Everything happens for a reason.” It’s A Cop Out & A Lie
“Everything happens for a reason” is the greatest lie of the new age movement. Want to know what happens for one singular reason? Nothing. Want to know what happens for whatever reason you chose to assign to it? Everything. Next time you hear “everything happens for a reason” punch the person who said it. Punch […]
Why Understanding The Law of Impermanence Helps In Tough Times
The Law of Impermanence states that all relationships will end via death or separation. Awesome. What a cheery way to start an article. Let me sit down, drink my cup of coffee and think about how everything good in my life is going to go away at some point. Color me with the happy crayon. […]
Piercing The Veil – Making Lasting Change Now
“Change only happens with change.” That is truly one of the most obnoxious, elitist, pseudo guru-esque statements I have in my consulting arsenal. Saying it makes me want to punch myself in the dick. Usually, it’s reserved for potential clients who are questioning my rates. Obnoxious it may be, but it’s also true. Change is […]
The Objectivity Lie – Truth Vs Perspective
Last week I killed a guy just to watch his soul leave his body. While I held my breath. And touched myself. True story. Actually it’s complete bullshit. When I catch spiders in the house I feel sorry for them and put them outside – and then fret for an hour over their well being. […]
The ONE Thing Everyone Needs To Hear After A Breakup Or Divorce
Things-breakup,divorce I asked a lot of people this simple question, “What was the one thing you wish you had heard after your last breakup or when you found out you were getting divorced?” The answer was a bit of shock considering how lucky I was to hear it early and often when […]